Showing posts with label PhD. Show all posts
Showing posts with label PhD. Show all posts

September 18, 2008

Women Rock

I had a huge realization last night. Women rock my world. Guys rock too but it is my women friends who have been anchors during this tempestuous time of my life. My women friends and relatives have picked me up, brushed me off and re-fueled my engine.

It hit home when I was in DC last week for my brother's wedding. My cousin Liz, who I hadn't seen in 5 years (so unacceptable and my doing) told me that I could do anything I want. She's pursuing a PhD, which I've flirted with for a few years now. She said Amy, go for it. Liz is making it happen as a single mom and here I am with basically zero responsibilities hemming and hawing.

My girlfriends are inspirations. Not to sound sexist but they are strong with and without men. Gosh, I am free to live my dreams too.


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September 8, 2008

Meant to be Together

In the Oakland Hills yesterday, I attended the most unexpected event - a picnic for Jewish folks living I San Francisco's East Bay. What surprised me was that I attended and actually had a fun time. It has been decades since I attended an event that was mostly Jews and most likely on those previous occasions it was at the bidding of my parents. This one I attended with my cousin Ben.


I met some fascinating folks. Never have I been in a group of people where the majority had PhDs and MBAs. Not only were they book smart but also heart smart. I had numerous "deep" conversations about life, love, core values and careers that advance tour personal missions.


one guy, David, chatted with me about recovering from a broken heart. I was saying that I am letting my heart recover from my breakup and using this time to gain firm footing and not be in a relationship with anyone other than myself. He referred to an article he recently read that said human nature is for us to be in a relationship - to find our wholeness with a partner. That hit me in the heart. For the past few years I have been grappling with my need to be partnered and punishing myself for feeling un-whole. but I do believe that one of my core values is to be with a partner who believes we are meant to be together creating a stronger whole.

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September 5, 2007

Is There a Doctor in the House?

Well, yes, we have over 100 Doctors, all with PhDs that is, here at the Researching the Voluntary Sector conference.

At first I was intimidated by all these PhDs presenting their research papers. That feeling was reinforced by the snooty-patooty facilitator of the first break out session who quickly put me in my place by snorting at my question and then saying I couldn't ask another. I instantly blushed, making the verbal slap even more painful.

You see, I didn't "get" the presentation format. Of course IF it had been explained at the start of the conference I would have understood. The researchers present their papers, you ask clarifying questions after each presentation and then at the end you discuss (attack?) the sum of their information. If you are very clever you make links between the three or four papers when you ask a question. The audience are all PhDs too, except for the few mystery folks such as myself.

What's been insightful for me, besides the fact that I will always be recognised as an American first and an individual second, is that these PhDs gather data and crunch numbers. Ask them anything outside of this info, such as drawing conclusions about influences, emotions, concerns of their research subjects and they get all confused. For instance, one team conducted focus groups with donors. "We observed that people were uncomfortable in the focus groups." Okay - why? "Because they don't like to talk about money?" That was as far as they took it. How is that conclusion helpful to a charity trying to use the research findings? So I said, "Is it perhaps that giving is very personal and is influenced by issues that are important in their lives. Talking about these charities could reveal things that they do not want to share in a group." The snooty-patooty facilitator said, "No! It is because they don't want to talk about money." In other words, "You don't understand our culture so bugger off."

But last night, having reluctantly decided to attend the awards dinner (not even sure what the award was about) I sat next to fantastic people who could talk openly and honestly about ideas, despite being PhDs. I repeated the story and they said, "actually, you are probably closer to the truth." Thank you. Check please.

The other interesting thing I'm hearing is that findings are always interpreted negatively. Example: "People are campaigning through consumerism Buy-cotting and Boycotting. They purchase Fair Trade products, shop at farmers' markets and buy organic and think they are making a contribution. What a terrible loss this is for the charity sector." Hello? I see this as an opportunity not a loss. Same with this example: "people are no longer volunteering or voting but they do spend their free time on the internet. What does this say about the sad future of our country?" Hello? It says that people are "volunteering" their time to create facebook pages, blogs and open source. Talk to them in these forums.

But you know what it is? If you are a researcher you are invested in analyzing your area of focus. If that area shows change you may have to change your research focus. Doesn't seem like people want to make that change and risk their reputations. Also, many of these folks seem to have their theories all nicely defined but have had no experience in reality - meaning the day to day operations of charity organisations. You can just hear it in the conclusions they draw from the research.

My Conclusion: I am so happy that I didn't pursue a PhD and instead am within the sector, developing and sharing best practices as a practitioner and consultant.